"Couple goals" started as a caption and turned into a comparison trap — a highlight reel of someone else's relationship that has nothing to do with what you two actually want. The more useful version is figuring out your own definition, specifically.
- What does a genuinely good week look like for us, not a highlight-reel one?
- What's a habit or ritual we have that we'd want to protect no matter what?
- What does support look like when one of us is struggling, specifically?
- What's something other couples do that we've decided isn't for us, and that's fine?
- Where do we want to be, realistically, in a few years — not aesthetically, actually?
- What's a value we both hold that shows up in how we treat each other?
- What does 'winning' look like for us as a couple, in our own words?
Our Deep Talk quizzes are built to get at exactly this — not the version of your relationship other people see, but the one only the two of you actually know.